As much as we all love the idea of finding our “soul mate” or “one true love” the reality is that dating and relationships actually take a lot of work. The real goal then, is to find the person that is actually worth doing all that work for. All relationships will experience plateaus at some time, but what is a natural, normal part of a marital relationship, can be a major red light in a dating relationship. If you are already encountering obstacles a few months into a relationship that most married couples won’t face until at least a few years in, then it might be a good indication that your dating relationship doesn’t have what it takes to carry it through the long haul. Here are 5 signs that it might be time to end your relationship and move on.
1.) There is little to no physical affection
Ask any married couple, and they’ll tell you a healthy and active love life takes some seriously concentrated effort over the long haul. But what is difficult and challenging after several years of marriage should not be difficult and challenging after several months of dating. If your partner doesn’t at least get your heart moving a little faster every time you see them, that might be an indication this isn’t a relationship that’s going to go the distance.
2.) It’s all physical and nothing else
The other end of the spectrum is when your relationship is nothing but physical and you rarely, if ever, find yourself talking about anything of value, meaning or importance. If every “date” takes place in bed, it might be time to get out of bed and see if you have anything in common anywhere else. Long term relationships require a solid foundation of similar interests and passions. If the only thing you have in common is how much you both enjoy lovemaking with each other, then it might be time to move on.
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